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Got a new furnace
As you all know, it's snowing up north. We happen to be up north. The other night one of the roommates smelled a gas leak. Got the gas company to come check it out. Turns out there was one. The furnace in this house is about 20 years old and is finally trying to kill us all because it just decides to stop working in the middle of this snow storm.
So right now, the gas is off in the middle of winter in a house where pretty much everything heat-related (stove, oven, water) is all gas-powered. So in addition to it being cold, we also can’t cook and have no hot water (meaning no showers, can’t do the dishes or other stuff you need ho
It's 2015. Let's hope it's better than 2014
Wanders in, looks around, winces and cringes in disgust. Bluh… I really have let this place go haven’t I? Resigning himself to the task of making things less dusty, proceeds to knock the dust off.
…is this thing on? Meh… let’s do this anyway…
So yeah, I’ve pretty much ignored this space since… August? Yeah, looks like August. There are a variety of reasons for that, but they mostly boil down to me not really caring that much about DeviantArt as a general thing. On one hand, it does make it easy to check up on the folks you watch/follow. Really good about that actually. However, posting stuff;
Thoughts on Suicide
When I heard about Robin Williams’ death, I refused to believe it. I heard about it while playing MechWarrior Online and, to be honest, you can’t always trust what it is that people put out there, especially when that sort of stuff is spouted in an attempt to get a rise out of others. So yeah, I called bullshit let it alone until after the match, then I hit up Google (Google pretty much knows everything) and I found the early release articles that were published hours after he was pronounced dead.
I wanted to call bullshit…
…I still do…
…but reality has since sunk in and one of the greatest men on the fa
BronyCon 2014 Awesomeness
So in my last journal, I noted how stuff regarding my car pretty much exploded all over my face for most of the weekend, but it all turned out much better than expected or hoped. The vast majority of that was me bitching about how shit went wrong. This one is going to be talking about the stuff that went right.
Friday
For me, Friday was, for the most part, a rather quiet day. I had very little planned and I was actually quite content to spend my time chained to the table. I wanted to catch a morning drawing workshop which was nice, but I probably should have let some of the younger and/or less experienced artists have my spot. That said, th
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As someone who has dealt with these kinds of feelings, helps others with these kinds of feelings, and still does handle them on her own from time to time let me just say this about approach. Some people will approach you with good intentions and the way that they deliver their message hurts and drags you down. A large part of that is how you're accepting the message. I've done exactly the same. I've had people tell me that I was doing something I could be doing better and had melt downs over it. It's part of human nature. When you can learn to step back quiet your mind and consider what's being said then it helps. Plenty of people haven't learned how to do that, trust me, other professionals I've seen online will completely lose their shit over completely valid points. It's because of how we view it. Advice I might give it one of my net kids, when given to the other will result in a complete melt down until I sit and explain to them that it's not a reprimand, it's advice.
As far as your analysis goes passion is important. Any talent or thing that you want to work to, without the passion to do so, becomes just work. Get into the basics of what you're making and look at why you like making it. Draw and create things that interest you. A big thing that is a killer not just creatively but also on an emotional level is apathy. Many people will try to cultivate apathy as a method of handling their emotions but apathy in large doses can really hurt more than it helps. It's okay to be passionate, to get into what you like, to enjoy things, to hate things, to have opinions, that's part of living life.
And you can jumpstart yourself if you get into an apathy rut. It takes mindful thinking of your emotional state though. It also takes reminding yourself of what you love and why you love it. Like that MLP challenge, rewatching the show. Seeing things you like with fresh eyes or finding new things that light your fire.
You know that I went through a very rough divorce. In the wake of all that happened to me there was a month that when I would come home I would just want to lay in bed, that was all, because my ex had left, I hadn't explained things to my family, etc. Rattles basically kept me treading water when I was drowning. Something I learned really quickly was that when I started to talk down about myself or my situation, started to act like I didn't care about things, or in general when I would put a negative spin on shit I would get an immediate "Change it." from Rattles.
That just seemed so...frustrating and stupid. Change it?! How was I supposed to do that! What Rattles meant was to change my mindset. If your computer's busted you can try to fix it or you can get mad about it and let that clog your thinking while you fix it, in which case you just break it even more. Slowly, I started to sort out what opinions I should put away and what opinions I should keep from others. Most of what I hated about myself and my situation wasn't from me. I didn't like my body weight...because my family and ex talked about it. I realized I didn't actually mind my size. I didn't like being gay...because of what my family said about it not because of how I felt. Sitting down and thinking about where the root of our disappointments in ourselves comes from can be a real eye opener. And you come to realize that you don't have to believe in those things, not for a minute. Someone in your life thinks that you don't deserve something? You don't have to believe it too. And sometimes, we legitimately have developed and believe a lie about ourselves. Like, for instance. "I am a bad person" or "I don't deserve something good". And it hard to acknowledge that we can fix it when we have bad feelings about ourselves because we're too used to believing the lie we've convinced ourself is true. I know many amazing artists who genuinely think their work is bad. I know many amazing writers who believe they'll never get published because "I'm not good enough." and they exist in a world where people pay for bad art and bad writing on a regular basis. Where people who aren't as good as them at their craft have jumped that hurdle and been published. Our feelings about ourselves and the outlook we hold for ourselves can hold us back and it's something that we very much can change!
It's a very hard mindset to break. Trust me. And there's plenty of times you'll feel yourself slide back into that pit. There's plenty of self hate spirals and looking into the abyss. The difference is, once you've learned what's going on with yourself, you can look into that abyss and step back and say "I don't have time for you. I have things to do." You can see that self hate spiral sneaking up on you and while it might eat at you for awhile at some point you say "Fuck you, get back in your box." and you go back to work on the things you love.
And while you're inside this feeling it feels like no one gets it. I've got a kid inside that feeling right now and every time she talks to me about it I just wish I could hand her the key to unlock the doors and step outside. But it's not that simple. Getting out of the mindset is more like practicing a skill. You learn new techniques, you do them over and over again, you seek counsel and guidance to help, and you keep doing it over and over. It doesn't start working immediately and you feel like it's a waste of time. Just like gesture drawing in art you feel like "Why am I doing this?" but slowly, you'll find your outlook on things changing. We make a choice to be cynical or positive. And not everything has to be black and white in that respect.
You're actually quite keen at looking at the other side of any situation which is something that, to me, would make you a valuable asset to online communities. Things like the whole panic over Tumblr being bought by Yahoo. You could recognize and explain why that was needed for them as companies. To me, you have plenty to talk about! It's just a matter of getting you on the right topics!
If you need help with things online or just getting in the right headspace bro, I'm right there on skype! Don't hesitate to ask!
Hopefully all that made some semblance of sense. >.<
As far as your analysis goes passion is important. Any talent or thing that you want to work to, without the passion to do so, becomes just work. Get into the basics of what you're making and look at why you like making it. Draw and create things that interest you. A big thing that is a killer not just creatively but also on an emotional level is apathy. Many people will try to cultivate apathy as a method of handling their emotions but apathy in large doses can really hurt more than it helps. It's okay to be passionate, to get into what you like, to enjoy things, to hate things, to have opinions, that's part of living life.
And you can jumpstart yourself if you get into an apathy rut. It takes mindful thinking of your emotional state though. It also takes reminding yourself of what you love and why you love it. Like that MLP challenge, rewatching the show. Seeing things you like with fresh eyes or finding new things that light your fire.
You know that I went through a very rough divorce. In the wake of all that happened to me there was a month that when I would come home I would just want to lay in bed, that was all, because my ex had left, I hadn't explained things to my family, etc. Rattles basically kept me treading water when I was drowning. Something I learned really quickly was that when I started to talk down about myself or my situation, started to act like I didn't care about things, or in general when I would put a negative spin on shit I would get an immediate "Change it." from Rattles.
That just seemed so...frustrating and stupid. Change it?! How was I supposed to do that! What Rattles meant was to change my mindset. If your computer's busted you can try to fix it or you can get mad about it and let that clog your thinking while you fix it, in which case you just break it even more. Slowly, I started to sort out what opinions I should put away and what opinions I should keep from others. Most of what I hated about myself and my situation wasn't from me. I didn't like my body weight...because my family and ex talked about it. I realized I didn't actually mind my size. I didn't like being gay...because of what my family said about it not because of how I felt. Sitting down and thinking about where the root of our disappointments in ourselves comes from can be a real eye opener. And you come to realize that you don't have to believe in those things, not for a minute. Someone in your life thinks that you don't deserve something? You don't have to believe it too. And sometimes, we legitimately have developed and believe a lie about ourselves. Like, for instance. "I am a bad person" or "I don't deserve something good". And it hard to acknowledge that we can fix it when we have bad feelings about ourselves because we're too used to believing the lie we've convinced ourself is true. I know many amazing artists who genuinely think their work is bad. I know many amazing writers who believe they'll never get published because "I'm not good enough." and they exist in a world where people pay for bad art and bad writing on a regular basis. Where people who aren't as good as them at their craft have jumped that hurdle and been published. Our feelings about ourselves and the outlook we hold for ourselves can hold us back and it's something that we very much can change!
It's a very hard mindset to break. Trust me. And there's plenty of times you'll feel yourself slide back into that pit. There's plenty of self hate spirals and looking into the abyss. The difference is, once you've learned what's going on with yourself, you can look into that abyss and step back and say "I don't have time for you. I have things to do." You can see that self hate spiral sneaking up on you and while it might eat at you for awhile at some point you say "Fuck you, get back in your box." and you go back to work on the things you love.
And while you're inside this feeling it feels like no one gets it. I've got a kid inside that feeling right now and every time she talks to me about it I just wish I could hand her the key to unlock the doors and step outside. But it's not that simple. Getting out of the mindset is more like practicing a skill. You learn new techniques, you do them over and over again, you seek counsel and guidance to help, and you keep doing it over and over. It doesn't start working immediately and you feel like it's a waste of time. Just like gesture drawing in art you feel like "Why am I doing this?" but slowly, you'll find your outlook on things changing. We make a choice to be cynical or positive. And not everything has to be black and white in that respect.
You're actually quite keen at looking at the other side of any situation which is something that, to me, would make you a valuable asset to online communities. Things like the whole panic over Tumblr being bought by Yahoo. You could recognize and explain why that was needed for them as companies. To me, you have plenty to talk about! It's just a matter of getting you on the right topics!
If you need help with things online or just getting in the right headspace bro, I'm right there on skype! Don't hesitate to ask!
Hopefully all that made some semblance of sense. >.<